One of the most fundamental concepts in Reality Transurfing is the “Law of Balance.”
The Law of Balance simply states that the universe always seeks balance or equilibrium - whenever there is an accumulation or buildup of energy, various forces will act to counterbalance and create a new equilibrium.
Understanding the Law of Balance is crucial to successfully implementing all the principles of Reality Transurfing - otherwise, you will be facing obstacles and roadblocks (counteracting forces) at every step of the journey toward your ultimate goal.
The Pitfalls of Imbalanced Importance:
Violation of the Law of Balance often occurs when individuals assign excessive significance, importance or meaning to internal or external factors. This imbalance arises when too much importance is placed on personal strengths or weaknesses (internal) or when external goals and objects are overly prioritized.
A classic illustration of this imbalance is the relentless pursuit of a romantic partner, where intense focus and energy yield diminishing returns. By easing up and reducing the perceived importance of this goal, individuals often find that the desired partner naturally appears in their lives.
The Role of Reduced Importance:
A recurring theme in "Reality Transurfing" is the concept of reducing importance. Detaching from outcomes and lowering the emotional intensity associated with goals is emphasized.
The question arises: Why is reducing or eliminating importance so crucial in achieving one's goals?
The answer lies in the understanding that the more one contends with the world for their desires, the more the universe counterbalances, resulting in the opposite of what was sought.
Types of Importance:
Importance manifests in two forms: inner and outer. Inner importance involves attaching significance to personal strengths or weaknesses, while outer importance pertains to giving excessive weight to external goals or objects.
For instance, an individual overly self-conscious about poor math skills may consistently face situations highlighting this weakness. Similarly, arrogance about one's intellect or status triggers counterbalancing forces, humbling the individual through setbacks or challenges.
If we often complain about a boss or coworker that we hate or strongly dislike, then the universe will ensure that that person and his negative qualities is in our life all the time. If you are strict parent who demands obedience and proper behavior from your children, then your children will resist and rebel against you at every turn.
Manifestations of Importance:
A general rule-of-thumb is that if something is eliciting unusually intense emotions from you, then you are placing too much importance on something.
Intense emotions such as indignation, dissatisfaction, irritation, anxiety, and others are indicators of misplaced importance. These unbalanced emotions signify the need to reassess and reduce the significance assigned to a particular goal or situation. Recognizing these emotional manifestations is crucial in maintaining equilibrium and adhering to the Law of Balance.
The Antidote - Acceptance and Backup Plans:
To prevent the trap of overemphasizing goals, accepting the possibility of failure from the outset and devising a backup plan or Plan B is recommended. This pragmatic approach helps individuals navigate their journey with resilience and adaptability, aligning with the Law of Balance.
Conclusion:
In the pursuit of success and fulfillment, mastering the Law of Balance is indispensable. By understanding the pitfalls of imbalanced importance and adopting the principles of reduced significance, emotional detachment, and acceptance, individuals can navigate the currents of Reality Transurfing with grace and achieve their goals with greater ease.
Principle:
Abide by the Law of Balance, reduce importance, go with the flow, and stay calm.